FILM UPDATES: * I’m at the Psychedelic Science 2025 Conference in Denver to meet many of the leading minds in this space. I have an on-camera interview with Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, author of The Body Keeps The Score, and some exciting conversations with the leading scientist studying 5-MeO. Stay tuned for images and videos from the event! Let’s get into today's issue: Success Is Just a High-Performing Prison If You’re Still Unaware Hey friend, We did it. We cracked the code. And yet… something still feels off. It’s subtle. A quiet ache. A background hum of “Is this it?” From the outside, everything looks dialed. Because success, without awareness, is just a prettier prison. The High Performer’s DilemmaHere’s what no one tells you about high performance. It’s really easy to confuse mastery with avoidance.
When you’re great at performing, the world rewards your mask. So why would you ever take it off? You’ve trained yourself to turn pain into productivity. You’ve built a reputation on being unshakeable. You’ve made peace with discomfort by outworking it. But, you didn’t solve the problem…You just outran it with a faster treadmill. The Real Root of RestlessnessThe discomfort you feel isn’t because you haven’t achieved enough. It’s because you’ve built your identity on the pursuit of achievement itself. And that’s shaky ground. When success becomes your source of self-worth, you become addicted to the next milestone. When the applause fades, you panic. When stillness arises, you sprint. Not because you’re lazy. Not because you’re weak. But because you’ve never learned how to just be. Enter: The Prison of ProgressYou’ve probably heard some version of, “Growth is everything.” “If you’re not growing, you’re dying.” “Never settle.” Sounds inspiring, right? But what if I told you that same belief system…is what’s keeping you stuck? When your value is tethered to more money, more clients, more goals, you can’t relax. You can’t slow down. You can’t be present. Because presence feels… unproductive, and that makes your ego itch. So you stay in motion. But you never arrive. How do I know? It was my life for 2 decades. The Paradox: Awareness ≠ ApathyLet’s be clear. Awareness doesn’t mean you stop building. It just means you stop bleeding for it. When awareness leads, action becomes cleaner, calmer and more aligned. You stop chasing worth. You start moving from wholeness. And suddenly, the empire you’re building isn’t just big—it’s true. The Mirror PracticeHere’s something bold you can try this week:
This isn’t meant to shame the goal. It’s meant to strip away the illusion that it’s you. Success isn’t the problem. Unconscious success is. Final ThoughtThere’s nothing wrong with ambition. But when ambition becomes our identity, we’ve traded one cage for another. Freedom isn’t found in what we accomplish. It’s found in what we no longer need to prove. So keep creating. Because a prison with gold bars is still a prison. Best, and see you next week. Nic “awake” Kusmich PS. → Ready to escape the prison? Join the Neuroscience of Change - an online program rewiring what’s really running you. And right now, you can name your own price (Pay What You Can) as all proceeds go towards me helping to complete this film. |
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